In our routine life, sometimes we realize that the various catastrophic scenarios that we automatically create without realizing, do they happen because they are already realized, or do we realize that we are building them?

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In many periods of our lives, we are able to construct events that are likely to happen in the future, and drive ourselves to the dilemmas with the fear of their possibility.

I will definitely stay in this course, I will never accumulate enough money to own this house, my job interview will be terrible, I’m sure I will spread everything on my first meeting, etc., etc., the disaster scenarios that continue in many ways become reality.

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This finding, which Rosenthal and Jacobson bring to science with experiment management, is a functional reality that we often use to produce excuses for what we think we might already be able to do by satisfying our own ego.

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If we go back to the beginning of the article, we will certainly stay in the course of the fact that we really have stayed in the course because we think that we will remain in the lesson that we have not showed enough care. Since nothing happens in life without any reason and is not stagnant, our thoughts often predict our behavior.